Aug 11
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I’m generally a shy person… and in the past… I would meet people just from being somewhere for a period of time day after day and getting to know someone. Now it seems like my life is going to work and going home… I go out to the club every once in a while.. and the standard errands… but I’m no where everyday to get to really meet someone.. refuse to do the work thing…. so what’s the best approach to meeting someone out randomly…
say hello
How YOU doin?
be positive, and go for them and be one of them
My all time favorite line-
Ask her how much a polar bear weighs.
And then when she says she doesn’t know, tell her “it’s enough to break the ice. what’s up, my name is…”
You have to break out of your shell. Most women expect the men to go to them (unfortunately). Don’t be afraid if the woman doesn’t like you, because it’s their loss and there are SO many more out there, waiting to meet you.
“Hey, my name is _____ and I really like your shoes!”
If she replys as if to,
“Who are you?!”
or,
“I dont know you.”
or,
“Uh, Hello?”
Say you thought she was someone you knew;
if she replys,
“Hi! Oh thanks!”
You smile and say that your a shy dude and you thought she looked cool. She should be happy with that. Than from there, do what you will. ^_^
well depends on how you feel at the moment. if horny go up to them and start humping them. if your lonely just a quick pat on the glutimus is a surefire way of breaking akwardness around someone.
I find men that walk up to me in a trenchcoat with nothing underneath and then flashing me their man berries usually gets my attention. Maybe you could try somehting like that?
Its a good idea to steer clear of schools when you do this tho…. people think ur wierd then.
Grocery store. Coffee place. Wherever. You don’t have to go to the same place everyday, but sto psomewhere everyday and make it a priority to notice the chick drinking coffee alone or just shopping. I never did dig the club hook up. Not that i go clubbing at all of 16. but seriously the random stops turn out good, you just have to put yourself out ther a little bit. Meeting people at clubs and bars have a 3% success ratio btw. I think i didn’t make that up.
if i could give any guy 1 piece of advice it would be AVOID THE PICK UP LINES they do nothing but give us something to laugh with our friends about. you should just walk up and say, hi how are you?, my name is ____. That always seems to work, good luck
Go up dirctly and say that u really want to make friends but b carefull, lady means could be somebody’s wife. NOW is it a gal or a lady!!!!
ANYTHING other than a pickup line, PLEASE!
Be sincere in your smile and offer the classic gentleman handshake.
Upon approach, ask her a simple question in reference to something in her hand. This way you’re showing interest in something other than her initial attraction.
After the conversation goes well, kindly ask her for her number to keep in touch
and PLEASE! do not bore her right away with useless conversation. if after a few minutes the conversation has led to a rocky flow, end it and consider yourself unlucky with that specific lady and move on. do not stalk her insearch of a second chance at an intro.
(I believe the term for that is, Creepy.)
The best thing you can really do is go up to a woman and say, “Hi!”. Don’t use some cheesy pick-up line. Notice something she is wearing and compliment her for it or ask her questions like, “What is the story behind that?”
If you own a dog, take yourselves for a walk in the park. Ladies love cute dogs. They are the some of the best flirting props and make it much easier to break the ice.
a simple “excuse me, may i buy you a drink? no strings attached”
{you ABSOLUTELY have to be smiling when you say this or it would just be weird and sound like a terrible pick-up line}
the last part adds a layed-back, chill, just-wanna-get-to- know-ya vibe (very sexy); and it might even get a smile or giggle out of her- always a good start.
um, well, my cusin talks to stanger all the time, basically just start with a glance then say “hows it going” if its at like a bank its easy cause people are waiting in line. compliment them, and wait to see if you got anything in common, usually something will come up. hopefully the subject of maybe like a concert or a public get together of somekind will come up, say your going (cuase you are now) then meet them up there. and you can kick it off even more, then invite them over for the game sometime. if you have enough in common they wont think its weird, they will be honored and happy to know that they are seen interesting and wanted by someone else as a friend. its not easy… but just remember its hard for like everyone.